When needs are being met, then Interest and Participation levels are in balance; and when needs are not being met, then Interest and Participation levels are not in balance. But there is something more to balanced Interest and Participation levels. They free us up to notice new qualia. Like standingContinue Reading

We started with the premise that women are after conversation as addictively as men are after sex (if you will allow for somewhat scientifically-backed stereotypes). In the last post, the husband learns to let his wife guide him through her conversational landscape. In this post, it has begun to occurContinue Reading

The intersecting landscapes of husbands and wives cause lots of problems. Often, as the rose colored honeymoon fades into the past, spouses can feel a little too familiar with their partner’s inner landscapes. Often, they freely express the qualia that reveals itself to them; but the husband doesn’t want toContinue Reading