We started with the premise that women are after conversation as addictively as men are after sex (if you will allow for somewhat scientifically-backed stereotypes). In the last post, the husband learns to let his wife guide him through her conversational landscape. In this post, it has begun to occurContinue Reading

The intersecting landscapes of husbands and wives cause lots of problems. Often, as the rose colored honeymoon fades into the past, spouses can feel a little too familiar with their partner’s inner landscapes. Often, they freely express the qualia that reveals itself to them; but the husband doesn’t want toContinue Reading

Love is not the Big Dopamine experience, full of romance and adventure, about which we have been taught by the movies. This is the popular idea of love, and the way so many of us struggle with it, and crave it, it is more of an unhealthy addiction than aContinue Reading

As life and landscapes become more complex, so do the ecosystems which hold them together. It is the qualia we notice within (as opposed to the qualia our outward-facing senses follow), whether it be some pattern, consciousness, or ecosystem, which binds all of us together. The qualia within makes anyContinue Reading